Bentos for my guys – and a recipe!
Despite a total lack of sleep the past few days (I’m really having a hard time falling asleep at night, despite lots of exercise and low amounts of caffeine), I was up early enough to make The Boy GF pancakes this morning. (I can’t say enough great things about Pamela’s Pancake Mix — I just bought three 5-pound bags thru Amazon the other day!)
I’m dealing with a fog of emotions today as this is the anniversary of The Boy’s diagnosis of Type 1 diabetes.
So, when it came to making his lunch, I was struggling to put together something he’d like that would also assuage the guilt I was feeling for giving him my cruddy auto-immune genes. The easiest thing I could think of (that I knew he’d totally devour) was a PB&J unlunchable bento.

Ugh… now I feel guilty that I sent him to school with so many processed food items. GoGurt, Snickers, Yoohoo AND a stick of beef jerky?!
But I have to say that I was charmed by his happy reaction to seeing celery in there — and he cheered when he saw that I’d given him a double-dose of peanut butter to go along with it. No wonder he’s doing so danged well with his T1D and Celiac since he loves his veggies so!
As for The Hubster, he wanted more of the ham and potato soup I’d made for dinner last night:

As I went to snap a picture from my seat at breakfast, I saw Kenzie eyeballing the food and had to capture it.

This soup is the simplest thing to make and the smell that permeates the house while it’s cooking always reminds me of my mom (who was, admittedly, a terrible cook, but even she got rave reviews when she made this.)
5 potatoes (I like russets for the extra starchiness)
2 onions
1/2 pound green beans
1/2 pound ham
salt & pepper
white vinegar
Add peeled and cubed potatoes to a heavy stew pot and cover with cold water. Bring to a boil while you cube the onions, adding them to the pot when ready. Boil for 15 minutes. Add salt and pepper to taste (I like it VERY peppery.) Cut green beans into “bite-able” pieces and cube the ham, setting both aside. Ten minutes before serving, add more water — enough to cover the potatoes by two inches — and reduce heat to a simmer. Add the green beans and allow to simmer for 10 minutes. Add the ham just before serving and allow to heat up. We grew up splashing a teaspoon of vinegar over each portion and I can’t eat it without this addition — but The Boy won’t do it.
This is easy, delicious and very inexpensive. Best thing of all is that it freezes well and gets even better when reheated — the starches come out of the potatoes and makes it extra yummy. I grew up eating this soup with peanut butter bread.
Half the time I make it, it’s because the smell of it cooking makes me feel all cozy and warm.



My very first thought when I saw today’s bento was, “Wow, that’s a box full of mom-guilt. What did you do?!” It’s so not like you to pack so many processed foods!
I don’t know if it’ll make you feel better, but I did the same thing yesterday after Spawn’s annual physical when the pediatrician told him not only would he need glasses, but that his script looked suspiciously similar (identical) to mine and CS Dad’s.
Oh, and he came in under-weight and an inch taller since his last check-up two months ago, so he’s losing weight again.
So I took the kid to McD’s to play in the Play Place and stuff our faces with processed chicken, fried tater stix, and soft drinks. Well, Spawn had a 2% chocolate milk, but still…Table for GUILT, party of LAME anyone?… :p Ugh. AND I let him choose his dinner last night from the fridge full of leftovers. What did he pick? Leftover frozen pizza, edamame, and a YoCrunch yogurt. Thankfully he had a banana and some cheese for a snack early in the day.
Good luck! I know how hard it is to shake off those feelings of guilt – and, for me, inadequacy, because I just can’t seem to keep weight on him no matter what I do!
Poor CS spawn! I know how hard it was to for you to get him to GAIN the weight in the first place — so I hear the sadness in your comment. I’m sending “cyber milkshakes” to help find the missing pound. {{hugs}}
Yeah… The Boy’s lunch was definitely a guilt-inspired one. As was the homemade pancakes when all I really wanted to do was stay in my warm bed and catch up on sleep.
Eileen
Awww… lunch o’ love.
And I have to say, I can SMELL Mom’s ham and potato soup from here….WITH THE VINEGAR, baby!!
Yummm….. so glad you included the recipe, because I was going to ask you for it.
This could be comfort food for me.